Do you think my mom has a right to be mad at my sister?
I do.
My sister is 18 years old.
At my other sisters wedding a few days ago, the groom had a friend there that none of us had met. They met in college and the friend moved here from Romania for college.
So, Romanian friend is tall, dark, handsome etc...but with a dracula accent haha.
Anyways...My sister (18) took off with him during the dinner reception. She came home the next morning.
So she had spent the night with him and didn't tell anyone where she had been.
Moms furious and was so worried. My sister thinks she's done nothing wrong...
How do I get her to realize that she could have been in trouble with this guy and none of us would have known? She had only met him that day...
I think she's being stupid but she claims shes an adult and can do as she pleases...
Yeah she would not respond to texts or calls all night
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July 27th, 2010 at 2:16 am
Of course your mom has a right to be mad. Ask your sister that if she’s an adult and can do as she pleases, she should move out, get her own place, pay for her own food, clothes, and other things. There’s no way that she’s independent of her parents, and she should act accordingly. She’s an adult by definition, but by the looks of her actions, she’s not an "adult" in terms of maturity. 18 is only a number. She should know that.
July 27th, 2010 at 2:16 am
She is an adult but your mother still has every right to be mad because she could’ve atleast mentioned she was okay.
July 27th, 2010 at 2:16 am
i would be mad at her too !
She should have at least told someone where she was gonna be and for her to leave her sisters dinner reception for some guy she just met makes it even worse
July 27th, 2010 at 2:16 am
the adult card. smh she should have said something to someone even you before she took off, but i can see where your sister is coming from.
July 27th, 2010 at 2:16 am
By law she’s an adult, but that’s no excuse for being stupid. Being an adult means you have to accept any and all consequences for your actions and reputation that is to follow.
July 27th, 2010 at 2:16 am
yes your mom has a right to be upset your sister should of been more considerate.
July 27th, 2010 at 2:16 am
watch the whole video she is this
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ho2cyGKPPTU&playnext_from=QL
July 27th, 2010 at 2:16 am
Your mom got a right to be mad!
July 27th, 2010 at 2:16 am
She may be an adult, but that doesn’t mean your decision is a smart one. Thinking like that is what ussauly gets a person in trouble. You are right and she is wrong.
July 27th, 2010 at 2:16 am
Well, she’s right… She’s 18 so she’s an adult… BUT she still lives with her parents AND she left during a wedding dinner reception.. With all of her family there… Kind of makes her look bad to the family. And it probably made the family look at your mom as if she didn’t do something right. So your mom has EVERY right to be pissed at your sister. She should’ve at least TOLD someone that she was going with him and planned on staying over… Or called someone and told them she was gonna stay.
July 27th, 2010 at 2:16 am
She has every right to be angry not knowing if she was alright for that many hours. Your sister should of called and let your mother know where and who she was with. I understand was your mother is coming from being a parent of kids that age myself.
July 27th, 2010 at 2:16 am
your sister is a dumass! shhh dont tell her. lol. well nowadays, ‘adult’ is age 21 and older. how could she think that? if she’s going to cause mischief to the family, tell her to move out because she claims shes an ‘adult’. so kick her out! or if you do not like that idea, tell her that she could have gotten raped, and there is a percentage she could die of giving birth at the age of 18. and it could ruin her body, make her over weight. and it’s pretty much hell!
July 27th, 2010 at 2:16 am
Your sister is 18, but she doesn’t get to have the adult status only when it suits her purposes. When she is financially independent, and living on her own, then she gets to be the adult. Until then, she is a child living in her parents house. She is way off base to think that she is free to just leave and spend the night having sex with some stranger without a word to those with whom she lives and on whom she relies. I think your parents should invite her to leave their house and find one of her own, now.
July 27th, 2010 at 2:16 am
I think your mom has a right t be mad at your sister because what if something had happen to her , when she left with him nobody would know nothing . Do you realize how many kids disappear in a day . she lucky to see her family because a lot of people don’t get the chance and at 18 she shouldn’t be dating till she turned 21 or at leases finish school .so she should listen to her mom more because everybody knows that mother knows best .
July 27th, 2010 at 2:16 am
of course she has a right she could have been in any trouble, could have been murdered and no one would have known where to look for her or anything. however, she is an adult and can do as she pleases just as long as she lives in her own house. she seems rebellious she is just hurting herself. explain to her that anything could’ve happened to her
July 27th, 2010 at 2:16 am
Yeah she is an "adult" by law, but what she did shows her lack of maturity and consideration. And LMAO how can americans be like blah blah she’s 18, so she’s an adult, over in America you have to be 21 to drink alcohol!!!! how pathetic is that, if you’re an adult at 18, why do you have to wait ’til 21 to drink alcohol? LOGIC…So this whole adult thing is a bit contradictory…
July 27th, 2010 at 2:16 am
Yes, your mom has all the rights in the world to be mad at her. And, it’s completely stupid how she’d just leave at you sister’s wedding! And, I mean anything could’ve happen to her, he could’ve raped her. You should tell your mom to talk to her about it, it’s unexpectable.
July 27th, 2010 at 2:16 am
My sister is 53. If I thought she was supposed to be someplace and she left and deliberatly ignored everyone who was trying to contact her I would be really honked. Its called consideration for other people. Your sister not only scared your parents, but she pretty much wrecked you other sisters wedding for both of them and maybe even for you. If she is so mature she can step out all night and not have consideration to tell anyone she is ok she is old enough to live on her own and support herself TOTALLY. Your sister acted like a selfish, spolied brat and your mother should kick her out aznd let her learn what it is to live in the real world.